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heatherbeanoyler
4 days ago10 min read
Choosing Myself: The Heartache of Divorce, the Hope of Healing, and Valentine’s Day Reflections
Valentine's Day looks different this year, post divorce, and here I am still choosing to choose myself.
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heatherbeanoyler
Jan 304 min read
Heather's 2025 Valentine's Day Gift Guide
2025 Valnetine's Day Gift Guide for you love yourself with!
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heatherbeanoyler
Jan 96 min read
A Letter to the Me of 2024
A letter to the me of 2024: a work of gratitude and reflection to the version of me that made it through 2024 with dignity and grace.
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heatherbeanoyler
Dec 19, 20245 min read
Wellness and Mental Health During the Holidays
Keeping myself healthy and happy during the holiday season with these simple steps!
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heatherbeanoyler
Nov 21, 202410 min read
Turkey, Traditions and Timelines: My Mom’s Perfect Thanksgiving Playbook
This playbook helps you time out all the dishes and turkey cooking time to serve a Thanksgiving meal perfectly prepared.
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heatherbeanoyler
Nov 7, 20246 min read
Survival Mode
How do you survive when life is dragging you down? Here are some helpful tools I have learned to get through--I call it "Survival Mode"
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heatherbeanoyler
Oct 17, 20246 min read
Going Home
Going home can mean different things for different people. Here's what it means to me.
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heatherbeanoyler
Sep 12, 20247 min read
Friends After Forty and Filling for Divorce
When you start a new relationship, it almost seems like you get a new friend group built in, but what about when it ends? You end up back in
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heatherbeanoyler
Jul 25, 20246 min read
Don't Let Anyone Dull Your Sparkle
Finding my sparkle after years of not knowing who I was.
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heatherbeanoyler
May 8, 20249 min read
My Recovery Journey: The Public's Response to My Story
The reaction I have gotten from sharing my story.
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heatherbeanoyler
Mar 21, 202417 min read
My Recovery Journey: Where It All Began
The beginning of my journey to where I am today.
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heatherbeanoyler
Feb 29, 202413 min read
My Recovery Journey: The Events That Led Me to Treatment
A note to you before you begin to read my story: Trigger warning! This article contains events of abuse and domestic violence. Do not...
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heatherbeanoyler
Feb 9, 20246 min read
A Letter to the Woman Who Is Afraid to Live Alone
To the woman who is afraid to live alone, Going through a divorce is something that changes you. It brings up fears and doubt. As you...
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heatherbeanoyler
Jan 25, 20244 min read
A Letter to the Me of 2023
To the Me of 2023: a Letter of reflection and inspiration for the future.
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