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heatherbeanoyler
4 days ago10 min read
Choosing Myself: The Heartache of Divorce, the Hope of Healing, and Valentine’s Day Reflections
Valentine's Day looks different this year, post divorce, and here I am still choosing to choose myself.
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heatherbeanoyler
Nov 7, 20246 min read
Survival Mode
How do you survive when life is dragging you down? Here are some helpful tools I have learned to get through--I call it "Survival Mode"
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heatherbeanoyler
Oct 17, 20246 min read
Going Home
Going home can mean different things for different people. Here's what it means to me.
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heatherbeanoyler
Sep 12, 20247 min read
Friends After Forty and Filling for Divorce
When you start a new relationship, it almost seems like you get a new friend group built in, but what about when it ends? You end up back in
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heatherbeanoyler
Mar 28, 202424 min read
My Recovery Journey: Taking My Life Back
After my abuser made his official Alford Plea at the Peoria County Courthouse, he made a social media post that stated that although he...
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heatherbeanoyler
Feb 9, 20246 min read
A Letter to the Woman Who Is Afraid to Live Alone
To the woman who is afraid to live alone, Going through a divorce is something that changes you. It brings up fears and doubt. As you...
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